Neal Stephenson – Seveneves

This book was simply amazing to read. I chained it on the train from Copenhagen to Hamburg to Vienna, I simply could not put it down. Spanning 5,000 years, set on Earth as well as in Space I was gripped from start to finish.

Telling the story of a group of scientists trying to save the future of the human race against an unthinkable catastrophe, compounded by ethics and politics it was really engaging watching the story play out across time, with respect to all the individual decisions made along the way.

At 800+ pages, it’s not a short read, but none of those pages were filler, always building on what had come before to create a very rich world and galaxy. Neal’s research in to all the topics covered was really thorough and added so much to the world he created to, this books really has made me want to read more of his writings.

Daniel Wendler – Improve Your Social Skills

My social life took a bit of a hit when I first fell ill almost 2 years ago now. I went from squatting twice my body weight at CrossFit, salsa dancing, performing fire shows and going out 3-4 times a week on just soda and lime to breaking down, becoming a recluse, feeling terrible all the time and completing GTA V, maxing out my Skyrim character and putting on 20kg.

Since leaving England I’ve been on a path of self improvement to get back to where I was. It was quite easy to be anti social and just train at Tiger Muay Thai which was awesome at the time but then we created an awesome little digital nomad posse there so I was forced to reintegrate with society so there have been some self help, social books like this in my reading list recently.

This book is pretty good, once again reaffirming everything I knew anyway but it’s good to keep the various elements in mind. You’re not going to make many new friends by sitting in a corner quietly and hoping everyone says hello to you, you’ve got to get up, go out, meet people and say hello. Simple.

Since moving to Barcelona I’ve made tons of friends, started going out several times a week in the evenings, been to awesome parties, been having fun days out on the beach, played volleyball all with out the social crutch of alcohol. I’m now 38 days ‘sober’ woohoo! Whilst I’m not going to attribute all of that to having read this book, I will testify that I am definitely using the social skills the book talks about. Social skills that most social people will intrinsically know already anyway.

If you aren’t very social, are a bit of an introvert and experience social anxiety this book is very good value and I definitely recommend it. By itself it won’t take away your anxieties and create a healthy social circle of friends for you, but it will create a self awareness of your social skills and give you a path to follow and a framework to work in to help you become more social.

Austria, Vienna – This Means Nothing To Me

Vienna was definitely one of the coolest cities I went through as I traveled, and I didn’t even get to scratch the surface. After a beautiful 8 hour train journey from Hamburg, Germany, I landed in the capital of Austria only to discover it was Eurovision that day and everywhere was full. Other than possibly one of the most expensive hotels in the area so I had little choice in the matter and had to stay in a gorgeous $500 a night suite 😀

Double unfortunately, by the time I’d checked in, I was far too tired to head in to town for the free Eurovision celebrations. The 7 Ps springs to mind ..

Proper Planning and Preparation Prevents Piss Poor Performance

at least the suite meant I had access to the VIP business lounge, super fast wifi and included breakfast, lunch and dinner buffets with all the alcohol I could drink.

Like the rest of Europe, it was overcast and rainy the entire time but omg, what an amazing city. There were countless beautiful palaces and museums that I didn’t have enough time to visit. The city is definitely one for couples that want to have a romantic gettaway escape and soak up the culture.

Food In Vienna

Restaurants in Vienna offer amazing food. They have a famous Viennese cake, which was a chocolate taste sensation, as well as numerous ways of serving beef which were all awesome.

Neil Gaiman – The Ocean At The End Of The Lane

This was a really fun read, although it was aimed more at teenagers and I was expecting something more adult, the only other Neil Gaiman book I’ve read was his collaboration with Terry Pratchett, Good Omens.

The story is a dark one, with death, suicide, witches and a portal to another world, told through the eyes of a 40 year old recollecting his child hood at the age of 7.

This would definitely make an amazing Tim Burton animation, but an even better R rated Clive Barker horror!

Mark Manson – Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

Mark Manson keeps popping up on Facebook as a suggested friend, as we have many friends in common. I have never met the guy, so I haven’t added him, but I did decide to read his book to see what he was about.

It’s a pretty cool book.

The secret is in the title, the entire book is about being honest with who you are and what you like, then expressing that, honestly, in order to be attractive to women. No secrets, no tricks, just honesty.

Obviously sitting on your ass in a basement isn’t going to help, you actually have to go out and meet women and get over any social anxiety you might have yourself or with a therapist. This book isn’t really about that though, it’s about being authentic to yourself and in a world full of other people’s expectations about how you should be and what goals you should aim for in life, that can be kind of hard to do for some. Confidently expressing who you are, even harder.

It’s a fun read and full of little pieces of advice that resonated. I’m terrible at deep introspection but it was good to read his advice which helped trigger lots of memories and recollections I have from when I am authentic to my core beliefs.

Joel Fuhrman – The End of Diabetes: The Eat to Live Plan to Prevent and Reverse Diabetes

Joel Fuhrman is a nutritarian and he has a series of books revolving around juicing and ingesting as many nutrient dense foods as possible (fruit, nuts and vegetables) for their health benefits whilst laying off meat and animal products. Claiming that people that follow his diet can put their organs in to nutrient overload, with the ability to lose weight and even cure type 2 diabetes because the pancreas gets so many nutrients it starts working again.

I’m going to have to give this book 0 stars based on my understanding of science and personal experience.

Juicing and making soups from vegetables can give you a new way of taking in more nutrients, true, and this is definitely a good thing. This can also ‘help’ you lose weight as you’re essentially on a calorie restricted diet, also true. You also can feel good whilst doing it, for a time, because you’re filling your body with natural sugars giving you a non stop sugar high, bad. Due to the calorie, fat and protein restriction, as you lose weight your body will also catabolise muscle to feed itself, very bad.

If type 2 diabetes was caused by a vitamin deficiency, which is essentially what this book is suggesting, there would be some scientific studies backing it up and possibly a recommendation on which vitamins you’d be deficient in. Instead it’s just juice all the things and stop eating meat. There’s no real scientific basis for it, no hypothesis, test, results, conclusion, summary. No evidence, no proof.

For type 2s he says a 50% reduction in medication in the first week then you can be off your meds after 3-6 months. I know of people who have been doing this diet for years and have seen no such results.

The diet I chose, after careful research of many scientific studies, a high fat, medium protein, low carb diet, got me off my medication completely within 3 days of starting it. I’ve also lost 4kg of fat (not muscle) in 4 weeks since I started it. I also feel totally awesome.

This book represents the polar opposite of that diet.

Chris Guillebeau – The $100 Startup: Reinvent the Way You Make a Living, Do What You Love, and Create a New Future

This took me much longer to read than it should have. I started it in September 2014 and finished it in May 2015 whilst on the train to Vienna. I think I found the writing style disengaging. The book though does contain awesome stories of success as well as insightful information, the biggest takeaway being

Change your job to change your life

Something I tried to do back in 1998, but thanks to being guilt tripped in to living up to my parents expectations it took me 16 torturous years before I was finally able to quit and change things. Now it is actually too late to do what I wanted to do with my life so I’ve had to pivot and do something else that’s awesome instead.

Anyone at University doing a course they are uninterested in or following a career that is depressing them should look for a way out immediately, rather than finishing or continuing, even if that means cutting out family from your life, something I should have done in 1999. Quite simply, you can’t do what you want to do by doing something else, so unless you are following your dreams and passions, you’re just waiting to die.

Copenhagen – The Happiest Place On Earth

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Copenhagen is continuously voted the happiest place to live in the world. Some attribute this to the social system that takes care of everyone, others say it’s due to the lack of corruption in the government. Definitely 2 things the US and the UK need to learn from. I say it’s because they are quite liberal and put posters of boobs on buses, and pretty much anything else with a large enough surface.

I stayed at the Copenhagen Downtown hostel which was amazing, probably the happiest hostel I’ve ever been to. The people were wonderful, the staff amazing, the bar fantastic, the rooms awesome. No complaints, would definitely go back.

The hostel will hook you up with one of the free walking tours that take place twice a day, so on my last day there, before I caught the train to Hamburg, I gave it a go.

Unfortunately, like most of northern Europe, it was super cloudy and rainy, which totally harshed my mellow.

What was super cool was I got to meet up with some friends who I hadn’t seen since they last gave me a piggy back in Mongolia in 2013!

Jordan Gray – How To Be The Most Engaging Person In The Room

This book was either free or £0.99 so I thought I’d give it a pop. At 29 pages it’s ickle. Very ickle and was a doddle to read. After 15 years of spending my 9-5 mostly isolated at a desk with nothing but Skype, iTunes and a set of earbuds for company I now spend the majority of my time around people, dozens of people, that I have to interact and communicate with. Sometimes this is great and other times it isn’t.

This book was worth the price I guess, it didn’t teach me anything new about public speaking and communicating to audiences that I hadn’t picked up by simply being alive and immersed in the environments I’ve created for myself but it was still cool to read and a solid refresher. At 29 pages though I’m sure there are blog posts around with the exact same information on them!

American Diabetes Association – What To Expect When You Have Diabetes

This book is split up in to 170 different questions, questions like:

  • Can I catch diabetes from someone else?
  • Why should I work so hard to improve my blood-sugar level?
  • How will alcohol affect my blood sugar?
  • I easily get overwhelmed with decisions. Would I do better if I had planned meals?
  • Why is fat in food so bad?
  • How can I make my favourite recipes lower in fat?
  • How can I reduce fat in a meal when I eat at a restaurant?

This book is ok, but subscribes to the false, 80’s propaganda that fat is bad for you. Someone asking the question “Can I catch diabetes from someone else?” probably will buy this book and treat every chapter as the whole truth, furthering the pro-carbohydrate and anti-fat lies that are probably the route cause of the global obesity and diabetes epidemic.

This is a shame as the Mayo clinic, who put this book together, should really be more on point.